Some facts about BDSM that you need to learn

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S) and sadism and masochism (S&M). It can mean so many different things to different people. It doesn't always involve sex but - of course - it can. People who are into it are just regular people who happen to get off that way. It doesn't have to be all about whips and chains as a lot of BDSM porn movies and bondage porn movies suggest.

It involves a lot of reading and learning. BDSM education is about how to maximize ecstasy and minimize risk. There is a lot of great positions for beginners. Safety always comes first. That's why safe words are definitely a thing.