BDSM Basics: How to Tie Someone Up

A lot of BDSM is about getting things freaky and fun. If you’re going to dive into a scene that will make footjob porn look tame, you should tie someone up before you do so. Keep these tips in mind so that your group sex porn fantasy doesn’t turn into a scene from “Gerald’s Game” by Stephen King.

Make sure the person being tied up can get out. This doesn’t mean you should make it easy, but it should be possible. If you’re not having a group sex porn fantasy, it’s just going to be the two of you. What if you have a heart attack and die? If something goes really wrong, your partner should be able to get free and get you medical help. Also, don’t tie someone too tightly. You want to make sure their blood can flow. Otherwise, they could actually get nerve damage while trying to get off. Uh-oh!